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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop tryingto change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower isbetter. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes youtruly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating youas you deserve then heck no, you can’t "be friends". A friend wouldn’tmistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing youalong, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think "it will getbetter." You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when thingsare not better. The only person you can control in a relationship isyou. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of differentwomen. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would hetreat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separatefrom his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If somethingbothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use itagainst you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes fromwithin. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than youare…even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make himinto a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let aman define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheatedwith you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way youALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the onedoing all the bending…compromise is a two way street. You need time toheal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You shouldnever look for someone to COMPLETE you… a relationship consists of twoWHOLE individuals… look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make himmiss you sometimes… when a man always know where you are, and you’realways readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never moveinto his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit toa man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in yourradar but get to know others.

i now currently working in Asia Assistance Network (M) Sdn Bhd with just opposite the Star building at Phileo Damansara II, the main office is at CP Tower… me ar work as MEdicheck OFficeR who deals with clients and clinic/hospital; and making appointment thru system… of cos happy, it’s so damn hard to get a job now, and i found just the one which also same location as my previous inFormaTics College… working is tough and never easy, well i do miss the time of fun with my friends… but then again, still got weekends and online chatting… the funniest moment is lazy to wake up at 6 am is totally differ time from my usual 12 pm waking up time… heheh… yawning do occured when im in the office, so i make coffee/milo and warm water… well im learning, so next time u’ll see mi talking all, i meant ALL sorts of health thingy… anyway dun miss me, cos i will miss u guys… MUACKS xxXXxxx